Then there are the chapters everyone wants to read (or possibly wants to avoid): the sex chapters.
This section starts off by explaining how we got where we are as a culture and why we’re not any farther gone compared to previous ancient cultures.
I have women email me weekly about this challenge, and the biggest question I get is “Is this challenge for me?
I’m not really dating anyone, and I’m not caught up in sexual sin. ” Andy primarily recommends this challenge for people who are or have been caught up in dysfunctional and sexual relationships.
In chapter two, Andy moves into the premise of the whole book: Become the person your looking for is looking for. Chapters three and four discuss the importance of becoming the right person and how to become the right person.
He opens this up with a plea to This is the reason I wish I had taken the One Year No Dating Challenge when I was single. And after you’re married, preparation is impossible. If you get nothing else from the book, you need to get this.
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I wasted a lot of time, I missed many opportunities, and I regret it. And I was determined to “get” no matter what it took.So I do recommend the One Year No Dating Challenge to any woman who needs to refocus her life on becoming the woman God wants her to become.Maybe you don’t have a colored dating history (praise God for that! If you still find yourself obsessing on dating, men, and marriage, then this challenge is for you.They’re to give us sexual freedom, and they’re to elevate the status and role of women.In a nutshell, sex is more than physical – much more.Every single statement Andy wrote above is absolutely true.I don’t know you, and I have no reason to lie to you.The first chapter explains myths we often believe about dating and relationships – the biggest being The Right Person Myth which says “there’s a right person for you, and once you find your right person, everything will be all right (p.22).” Andy unpacks this myth by discussing other false beliefs such as when a relationship feels right it is right, sexual compatibility makes someone the right person, passion will sustain love and make the relationship survive, a baby will make everything better, looking for “right person” will make everything all right, and my friends and family are delusional when they don’t approve of this relationship.However, I think this challenge is for a broader scope of women and this is the reason.When I was single I was not in bondage to sexual sin. I was not perfect, and I do have regrets, but on a spectrum I can’t say this was my primary area of defeat.